"No," he says, still without ire. "I'm not an idiot. Allowing her to accept that her feelings are actually valid is more important. That being said, I didn't intend for this discussion to be a mutual critique of our chosen methods."
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"No," he says, still without ire. "I'm not an idiot. Allowing her to accept that her feelings are actually valid is more important. That being said, I didn't intend for this discussion to be a mutual critique of our chosen methods."